There it started

So, there it started. I used to send a message in the night writing about both vanilla and very light femdom. She would respond, most times, some times it is up to the Princess. But for me, soon it has become ritual to check  messages every night and check my luck. Everything in the message from Princess interested and excited me, not only the about femdom, most time there wouldn't be any mention. Anyhow i was still figuring it out, remember i don't have any experience. Well, soon mornings added to nights, i would wake up and feel something is missing util i saw her pic. So, one more ritual, open up computer and see princess picture once before setting my foot to work. So, it continued, just when i was thinking nice things are happening to me, nicer things may be in store. So, just to put a perspective, what is my status in real life? what was I for the society and world?

The Princess

So, as i was about to shut down my collar me account and resign to my older ways, i noticed a new profile. As i read, through something told me that this was authentic. All this happened over a year ago. For the first time a did not hesitate to send a message but i read and re-read before hitting the send button. She replied, nothing kinky. And for the first time i sent a tribute on my own without asking or edging. For several messages all we exchanged was normal vanilla stuff and i found myself anxiously waiting for her replies every day. As i remember, i would ask if she liked Starbucks and what breakfast she had that morning. I could get a glimpse of her world, which was so exciting for me. Well, it is, for a person like me to get to know a beautiful young dominant girl. Her messages had sublime cryptic femdom messages. She was intelligent, patient and knew when to do what and invested on getting to know, even though it is a femdom relationship, in which she had upper hand.Anyway's more to come....

my intro to findom

I am a naturally submissive man. But all my life the sub feelings were closeted. I lived by society ruls and typically suite the tag of middle class vanilla man. As i got into my 30's and into the later 30's my feelings grew. I wanted to experience, something and somehow. No more feeding off cheap material. Well, easier said then done, this i realized in the following days and months. Anyway, to get to the point, one day surfing on the net for the femdom material, i found a site called collar me. Very interesting site i thought. Again, going back once more, i was never in contact with an actual mistress, my relief mainly came from internet material. But i did not write a direct message may be for six months after, i was nervous and not sure. Any way, one day, i sent my first message, then few more before i got a reply. The feeling was very good, response from real person, a Mistress, got me excited.

But that excitement was short lived, after few interactions, excitement turned to confusion, i did not know who was real and who was not. I knew about professional dominatrix
where they charge and conduct sessions. It was a service but i was not interested in that as most of them from my little understanding are not really dominant and mostly act for that duration. I was away from the site for many months. But eventually i did come back, this time armed with some more knowledge. More about my fetishes in later blogs. Since i started with liking to feet, i ingrained various fetishes, i liked them but never did i understand "findom" and how that worked, if it worked at all. Next few months, i interacted with quite a few findom Mistresses but really never dared to pull  out my wallet, but i should say i went to close to the hilt but receded as fast.

One day while browsing casually, i came across a profile. I had to stop and just stare at the perfection, i don't know for how long. No face pic, it was only neck area, but still it made a great impact on me. Without a second thought i sent a message. At that time, i was not sure what i wanted or what to expect...but that is only if i got a reply back.....

Married Pay Pigs

You have found your girl or so you think, vanilla life starts. Couples go through cycles. One cycle you as married man go through is to earn, settle down in your job, build a career. At some point you now think you are doing reasonably well or fantastically well but the other side, your married life gets boring, saturated and then you start looking out. 


Your submissive/slavish feelings come out and as you venture on internet looking at gorgeous female dommes, they grow. You spend days, weeks, months and may be years going through female dominant profiles on twitter and other places. You lurk around following multiple accounts. You finally take fancy in one profile and follow it to no end. You go deep, desperately checking for any updates from that Mistress. 

And now it is time to fork into your hard earned money to give to that Mistress. You think you can go back to normal after doing for 3-4 times but that is never going to happen. Either quickly or slowly you are going to go deeper into financial slavery. Now your title is "Married Pay Pig". 

Findom + Pay Pig

A female dominant who specializes in financial domination using other femdom aspects to influence, hypnotize and mesmerize slaves/subs or suitably called pay pigs into paying money to dommes in various forms from small gifts to forgoing complete control of their finances. This is my take on limited pay pig experience that i have.

Who is a Pay Pig?

The official term for a findomme's client is "pay pig."

In the realm of bdsm, a paypig is a submissive, almost always male, who has consented to financial servitude towards his mistress. term used in a derogatory/humiliating light, usually by mistresses.

What is Findom?

Few different definitions found on the web:

FinDom is a specific kind of fetish in which a sub derives an erotic thrill from relinquishing control of their finances to a financial domme, which is where the practice derives its name. What occurs specifically within a findom relationship varies widely: it can be anything from paying a small tribute to the domme weekly, to purchasing expensive goods for her from an online wishlist, to signing a "blackmail contract," to giving the dom total access to one's debit/credit cards. 


Welcome to the weird world of financial domination, or "findom," where men who get off on giving money or gifts ranging from the extravagant to the almost bizarrely mundane, enter into relationships with people who lead them in elaborate games of degradation, humiliation, and sexual pleasure. 


Is a type of domination that involves the submissive (usually a male) paying or tributing the mistress. This can be used in combination with other interest such as sissification, cuckoldery, chastity, forced bi, etc. However, it does not need to be combined with anything in order for the submissive to feel satisfied, excited, or aroused. Just the idea of handing over money to a dominant female is enough to provide those feelings.

Financial domination is a very real fetish involving a submissive being "forced" to give money to the Dominant. Terms like money slave, paypig, moneypig, walletslave, wallet rape are all part of the play involved in this type of Domination and submission.Some men are very turned on by and seek out findom Mistresses and are aroused by the act of submitting so completely to a Dominant Female.